Holy Communion with Grace
In the bread of life and cup of salvation, God feeds us with the presence of Jesus Christ.
Recently, Christian education students at Grace learned about Holy Communion and baked communion bread for worship. So, it seemed like a good time to address some common questions people have about communion at Grace, especially the practices of communing children. Over time, some traditions around communion have changed in many denominations, including in the ELCA, and our understanding and practices may be different from other congregations where you have worshipped.
Who is welcome to receive Holy Communion?
The short answer is EVERYONE. At Grace, all are welcome at the Lord’s Table.
The longer answer is that I believe that Jesus welcomed everyone no matter what, and so people are NOT required to be a certain age, complete a class, be confirmed, or be members of Grace to participate and receive Christ’s self and presence in the bread and wine/juice. While it is the practice in many Lutheran congregations for people to be baptized before receiving communion, I am flexible on this one too, trusting in God’s grace and for the Holy Spirit to work in and through all the sacraments. All means all, no exceptions.
When can kids receive communion for the first time?
Children may receive communion as soon as their parents/guardians wish. If a child expresses an interest in receiving the sacrament by reaching for the bread when they come up and they haven’t communed before, I will “check in” (eye contact) with their parent/guardian. Some of us grew up with different traditions, and I honor and respect what parents/guardians decide. Children are invited to come forward and receive communion or a blessing as their families prefer.
If families have questions about whether a child is “ready,” I encourage them to look for two things. First, does the child recognize on some level that what is happening is different and special? This bread is not ordinary bread. It is special bread. Kids may not be able to verbalize it, but you can see it in their manner as they approach communion (and they take their cues from the adults around them, too.) Second, does the child want to receive? The desire to receive communion is powerful. Again, even if kids cannot articulate that desire, they may express it with those outstretched hands and an eager expression on their faces. That is when they are ready to receive communion. I also remind folks that none of us truly understands the mysteries of the sacraments, and “knowing” may lead to a very long wait!
Does Grace have a “first communion” class?
We have had formal instruction and a recognition in worship in the past, and we might again in the future. Over the last couple of years, I’ve tried different approaches to learning about communion – classes with parents/guardians are helpful for focus and attention. Kids learn about communion in several ways as they grow in faith and practice — informally in worship, classes in pre-K to 6th grade, and more in-depth learning in confirmation for 7th & 8th grades. I’m always open to feedback and ideas on what families prefer.
If you have questions about Holy Communion, including theology and practices at Grace, please reach out to Pastor Tania (pastortania515@gmail.com or 515-707-3815).
